So what makes a man attractive aside from the obvious? It’s not all
about looks, even though that always helps, but most people are looking for something
deeper
than physical qualities
After the initial honeymoon phase cools off, every relationship
has to face the cruel reality, that perfect guy is not so perfect after all and
things that were once endearing can become annoying, fast. But you have to keep
in mind that if you’re in a committed relationship, you will have to dig deep
to cherish those qualities that attracted you to your guy in the first place.
The timeless question, “What is the first thing you notice in a
man?” has obviously many answers. In many cases it depends on the age of the
person responding. Those in their teenage years may be more concerned with
looks, but a mature individual is most likely looking for something other than
physical appearance.
A sexy man is not necessarily a good looking man, but has a
combination of likeable qualities. So let’s go down the most popular things
that make a man attractive to others.
CONFIDENCE : in and out of the bedroom, confidence in a man is one
of his most attractive qualities. A guy that is not sure about his feelings and
how to express them, or how to please you in bed without being told is not
attractive at all.
SENSE OF HUMOR : a guy who can make you laugh when nothing else
can is hard to replace. If you’re having a horrible day and you talk to him and
end up with a smile on your face, you should probably think about keeping him.
However, the type of humor has to match yours and that’s what will make him
super attractive.
VULNERABILITY : it can be like pulling teeth to get through those
walls some guys like to put up, hence a guy who can open up and share his
innermost feelings — good or bad — is extremely attractive. If he’s not so
alien in this department (men are from Mars, remember?) it should be smoother sailing
as you move forward.
STRENGTH :what is worse than a guy who can’t handle a difficult
situation maturely? Not too many things. If a man is able to stay cool, calm,
and collected in the face of challenges, think twice. Few things make a man
more attractive to others than inner strength.
GENEROSITY: he gets upset when you treat yourself, but has no
problem spending money at a bar? What a turn off. When the lack of generosity
extends to sharing feelings, it’s even less attractive to a woman. A man who can
give freely is hot and if he shows this side to others without fail, take note.
